Day 141: reflect on your weekend and what you got from it. if you walked away with memorable moments, you’re doing well. May 20, 2012
Day 139(2): don’t just exist through life, live it. make good choices, get good results, feel good feelings. May 18, 2012
Day 139: the great thing about life is that every second is a second chance. use that to your advantage. May 18, 2012
Day 138(2): if things haven’t turned out how you planned them, there is a reason for that. leave the past where it belongs and turn yourself towards the future. May 17, 2012
Day 137(2): not to ruin the ending for you, but everything is going to be ok. so stop worrying. May 16, 2012
Day 134(2): mostly, my advice to you all is sensible and reasonable. but sometimes, you just need to let go and enjoy yourself. May 13, 2012
Day 134: be a bit exciting, do exciting things. this is the weekend! i hope you enjoyed it :) May 13, 2012
Day 133(2): if you have fallen apart recently, be patient with yourself as you reconstruct everything. it takes time, and you want to do it properly. don’t let anyone rush you, just take your time. May 12, 2012
Day 133: if something brings your world crashing down around you, see it as a wonderful opportunity to rebuild that world into a better one. May 12, 2012
Day 132(2): like i said, scary is good. if your dreams don’t scare you, they’re not big enough. May 11, 2012
Day 132: if you do what you always did, you will get what you always got. try something new and exciting, and something new and exciting might happen to you. May 11, 2012
Day 130: there is always someone better off than you, but there is also always someone worse off. look at what you have and learn to feel lucky for it, because compared to some people you are the luckiest person in the world. May 9, 2012
Day 128(2): don’t let your pursuit of happiness distract you from actually feeling happiness along the way. May 7, 2012
Day 128: there’s no better day than monday to start something new. starting today, think positive thoughts. positive thoughts = positive results. May 7, 2012
Day 126: don’t be too quick to judge others. it may be something for which you will be judged yourself. May 5, 2012
Day 124: the world has its ways. trust that what seems like a loss now is really just the world making space for a gain later on. May 3, 2012
Day 122: first day of a new month. before rushing into the new things you want, think about the things you already have. goal-setting is important, but don’t forget gratitude along the way. May 1, 2012
Day 120: which one are you? before you go looking for a new place, relationship or situation, think whether or not YOU can make a world of difference to the one you’re already in. April 29, 2012
Day 119(2): in deciding whether something is worth the amount of your life it takes to do it, this is a very helpful question to ask :) April 28, 2012
Day 118(2): never lose your ability to make yourself happy. if you are with someone who also makes you happy, that is an incredibly beautiful thing. but don’t DEPEND on them for your happiness. April 27, 2012
Day 117(2): believe in the small steps towards your goal, as well as your goal itself. every step forward is a step in the right direction, no matter how small. April 26, 2012
Day 117: believing is half the battle. you are what you think. you are capable of what you think you are capable of. April 26, 2012
Day 114: so it’s the start of a new week. it could also be the start of a new life. follow your dreams. there’s a reason you’re having them. April 23, 2012
Day 113: this may seem a little out there for this blog, but i think the bold nature of the message matches its importance in life. if there’s one thing i have come to respect in a person (and strive for myself), it is the ability to own one’s mistakes. my mantra is that everything happens for a reason, but i don’t mean it to be used as an excuse for the things that didn’t happen to you but that you created for yourself. if you do wrong, the first step to making amends for it is to ADMIT it and be ready to face up to the consequences. April 22, 2012
Day 112: on the weekend, i like this because it justifies my silly weekend shenanigans in a profound and philosophical way. every other day, i like this because it reminds me to live on the edge, take risks, and never be scared to make a fool of myself. April 21, 2012
Day 110: use your talents before you lose them. an average person using all their talents to the fullest will always beat an incredibly talented person who doesn’t make use of theirs. April 19, 2012
Day 109(2): it’s not just your dreams you should never give up on. it’s also your loved ones. April 18, 2012
Day 109: always keep moving forward. i’ve said before, it doesn’t matter how slow you go as long as you don’t stop. April 18, 2012
Day 108(3): a little something i discovered during the day. it’s not on today’s theme but i love it anyway. have an attitude of gratitude people. April 17, 2012
Day 108(2): an interesting and valuable insight on marriage and relationships generally. April 17, 2012
Day 107: this week, make a point of carefully considering the things you do before you do them. it is rare that you can wave a magic wand and avoid the consequences of your actions and regret is a horrible feeling. a little bit of forethought and reflection could change your life. April 16, 2012
Day 105(2): ALWAYS take the time to laugh. a life without laughter is hardly a life at all. April 14, 2012
Day 105: laughter really does do you a world of good. had an amazingly hilarious night last night and i couldn’t feel any better :) April 14, 2012
Day 104(2): things always work out, not necessarily how you wanted them to, but how they are supposed to, which is often so much better. April 13, 2012
Day 104: i said yesterday that everything always works out in the end. that doesn’t mean that everything along the way is positive. sometimes it comes after long periods of adversity or unpleasantness. but even those are part of everything working out in the end. everything happens for a reason and has an important role in making you who you are. April 13, 2012
Day 103(2): sometimes it’s hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but that doesn’t mean it’s not there. April 12, 2012
Day 102: things are only impossible if you choose to see them that way. sometimes all you need is a little change of perspective. April 11, 2012
Day 101(3): “The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for.” April 10, 2012
Day 101: easter has come and gone, and normal life resumes again. before getting swept away in the daily grind once again, take a moment to think about whether you are happy with your life, and the people/events/emotions in it. does it reflect what you deserve? never settle for anything less. April 10, 2012
Day 97: you’ve made it to the easter weekend, you’ve earned yourself a (short but deliciously sweet) break. look back at what you’ve achieved so far this year and be proud of it. even if you still have so much ahead of you, don’t let that take away from how far you’ve already come. April 6, 2012
Day 96: a fabulous philosophy to live by. it has done wonders for me and can do the same for you. everything will always work out in the end. April 5, 2012
Day 95(3): and as for the things on your life canvas that aren’t as happy as others, they are equally as important in making you who you are. what goes up must come down so it can go back up again. i love this one, it’s a bit longer but definitely worth a moment’s reflection. April 4, 2012
Day 95(2): while you’re throwing things at your life canvas, try to throw more HAPPY things at it. don’t create more drama, angst or worry for yourself than is absolutely necessary. be happy, it’s good for you. April 4, 2012
Day 94(2): same goes for information – not all information will give us knowledge. you won’t ever become wise or worldly until you learn to tell the difference. April 3, 2012
Day 94: not everything can be valued in monetary terms. your life won’t be truly valuable and enriching until you realise that. Benjamin Franklin wisely said that “money never made a man happy yet, nor will it. The more a man has, the more he wants. Instead of filling a vacuum, it creates one.” April 3, 2012
Day 91: love this life philosophy. this weekend, think about how yours is and whether that reflects what you want it to be. March 31, 2012
Day 90(2): pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. make the choice to push the negative things from your mind and just be happy :) March 30, 2012
Day 89(2): look ahead of you not behind you, so you can move forward and not backward. March 29, 2012
Day 88: be yourself. don’t worry about anyone else. that gives them way more control over you than they deserve. March 28, 2012
Day 87(2): never give up. if you’re not happy with how things are going, change the direction they’re going in. March 27, 2012
Day 86(3): have faith. don’t worry about the ending because there will be no ending if you don’t start. March 26, 2012
Day 86(2): stop waiting for the perfect moment. it’s just another excuse not to take the first scary steps towards your dream. make it happen. March 26, 2012
Day 86: monday again. back to action. whatever it is you’ve been meaning to start, GET. ON. IT. March 26, 2012
Day 85(3): friendship is about quality and not quantity. if you have even one good friend who you love and trust, you are probably better off than most. appreciate the people who love you for who you are, and love them back in return. March 25, 2012
Day 85(2): i love when friends do this. and i always make sure to do it in return. try it, it pays off. March 25, 2012
Day 85: spent this weekend living some hilarious stories with many best friends. such a lucky girl! they are one of the most special and important parts of your life, so treat them that way. March 25, 2012
Day 84(3): and one more thing that it shouldn’t take a birthday to remind us of (but this birthday is reminding me!) – live your life to the fullest, you only get one. March 24, 2012
Day 84(2): birthdays are a great reminder to appreciate everything you have at this moment and how lucky you are to have another one to celebrate. i am healthy, happy, safe and loved – if this isn’t the perfect life, i don’t know what is. March 24, 2012
Day 84: birthday post!!! keep this one for whenever yours comes around. no-one should need a reminder (but sometimes we often do) that birthdays are something to CELEBRATE!!! March 24, 2012
Day 82(3): going that extra mile doesn’t just make others notice you, it is something YOU will notice in the future. March 22, 2012
Day 82(2): sometimes getting all up in people’s faces is a good thing. be noticeable. be extraordinary. March 22, 2012